Unique first date ideas
Wow, you are lucky guy, she agreed to go out with you. Don’t get too relaxed yet, there are still many ways to screw it up, of course, you don’t want to think negatively…
Here, we’ve laid out best ideas for the first day and we even threw some tips and tricks for the date itself!
First of all, two worst date ideas are:
1) The place you met her
2) Any place where other guys can hit on her while you are talking
First one shows no creativity and the second one is obvious. You want her to talk to you, not somebody else !
Good first date ideas:
Going to grab a bite is not bad, but how about you cook a meal for her at home. It doesn’t have to be anything special. Just because you suggested something like this and you put in the effort, you are already different than 90% of guys and she will appreciate it!
Do something physical. For example: Salsa dancing, bowling, pool… Don’t do anything physically too challenging like rock climbing, because if she is not athletic it will just make her self-conscious.
Karaoke night! Pro tip: Sing a duet, you can even role-play while singing depending on the song. If she is not a good singer and is to self-conscious, you can pick easier song.
Events or Festival. There will be so many things to talk about if you go to an event/festival, that you will never run out of things to say! If the event requires you to wear costumes, even better, when you are wearing costumes, rules don’t apply and you will be more relaxed.
Now for the tips:
- Introduce the touch early in the conversation, the earlier the better. If your end goal of a date is to kiss her or even take her home, it would be weird if you did it all of a sudden, you have to build up to it!
- Be present and relaxed, don’t have your mind full of toxic thoughts. If she agreed to go on a date with you, she already likes you, you just have to make sure you don’t screw it up!
- Be creative and playful, let your mind, words and energy flow and just be there with her.
As Beatles would say, “You have found her now go and get her!”